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Are able to speak in public?

This is a very hard thing to do for many.

Even when they know everyone just standing up to take can be very hard.

I for one am not held hostage to this.  I read a quote one time and it went like this...


The Greatest prison people  live in is the fear of what others people think of them.


That is a self imposed prison.

Comment balloon 13 commentsWilliam Feela • August 28 2016 09:33PM


I actually enjoy speaking in front of groups and taught adult ladies Bible studies for years.  I rarely get nervous. If I do the first ime I am in front of a new group, the nerves only last a few seconds.

Posted by Sybil Campbell, Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida over 4 years ago

Some people get stage fright William. I had to speak at a dear friends wake recently and I could not finish what I had prepared, The friends brother was in the front row and he was nodding his head in agreement with me as I spoke and i could not handle it. His two young children were playing and did not understand what had happened to daddy.

Posted by Noah Seidenberg, Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917 (Coldwell Banker) over 4 years ago

Though I do not go out of my way to give speeches, I do find myself doing some public speaking at least once each month.

Posted by Bob Crane, Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671 (Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, Keller Williams Fox Cities) over 4 years ago

I enjoy speaking to groups.  I had some problems initially but the more you do it the easier it becomes.

Posted by Peter Mohylsky. Beach Expert, THE BEACH IS OPEN (PrimeSouth Properties) over 4 years ago

Good morning William.  I had that illness at one time in my life.  Now, not at all

Posted by James Dray, Exceptional Agents, Outstanding Results (Fathom Realty) over 4 years ago

Yes, this is very true, William.  And many could use the key to let them out of this cell.

Posted by Gabe Sanders, Stuart Florida Real Estate (Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales) over 4 years ago

Good morning William. I like the quote and agree. I was shy as a kid but no longer. I love public speaking.

Posted by Sheila Anderson, The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133 (Referral Group Incorporated) over 4 years ago

Hey William. I actually enjoy speaking in public. If it is a subject I am comfortable with I can go on forever lol

Posted by Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty, Florida Space Coast Homes (Waves Realty) over 4 years ago

Bill, after being at your dad's funeral the rememberance talk youi gave showed you have no fear at all.

Posted by Vern Eaton, Realtor 651-674-7449 over 4 years ago

Not a fan of public speaking to a large audience. Have done it but prefer more intimate settings with a few people Bill.

Posted by Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!, So Utah Residential, Referral & Relocation REALTOR (Red Rock Real Estate) over 4 years ago


I have spoke in public for many years . . . . and actually look forward to it.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Posted by Lou Ludwig, Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC (Ludwig & Associates) over 4 years ago

My lip used to quiver and it was so hard. The more you do it the easier it gets though can't say it is easy yet.

Posted by Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties, The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730 (Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070) over 4 years ago

I also am one of those who enjoys speaking in public. Perhaps you could try joining a toastmasters group. I originally joined my group to network and did get some referrals but I also was able to sharpen my skills as a speaker. 

Posted by Larry Riggs, GRI, SRS Your Frederick County Specialist (Century 21 Redwood) over 4 years ago